"Dan sesiapa yang bertaqwa kepada Allah nescaya akan dijadikan baginya jalan keluar . Serta memberinya rezeki dari jalan yang tidak terlintas hatinya. Dan , sesiapa berserah diri bulat-bulat kepada Allah, maka Allah cukupkan baginya. Sesungguhnya Allah tetap melakukan segala perkara yang di kehendakiNya. Allah telahpun menentukan kadar dan masa bagi berlakunya tiap-tiap sesuatu." (Surah At-Talaq 2-3)

Anger Management

Tajuk ini mengingatkan sy tentang sahabat sy yg bernama Eazrik Dazilie, satu UUM dan satu kelas matrix dgn sy. Masa degree public speaking dia punya tajuk ialah "anger management".

Moga Allah memberkati sahabat sy tu, lama dah x jumpa.

Then, How to control our anger? Let see these hadiths.


Subject: Cures for ANGER & what a wonderful reward
Mohammed-peace be upon him-said: "Anger is from Shaitan (the devil) and Shaitan has been created from fire. Since water extinguishes fire ,then when one of you is overtaken by anger, let him make Wudhu (ablution)" Abu Dawood.

In another narration .it is mentioned , " the one who becomes angry while standing should sit down. If his anger has still not cooled down, then he should lie down". (Ahmed, Tirmidi)

He who can overpower others in wrestling is not really a strong man. True strength is in that individual who can control himself at the time of anger" ( Bukhari)

If a person swallows his anger despite being able to act according to the demands of his anger, then Allah will call him in front of the entire creation on the day of judgement . The Hoors (Maidens) of Jannah will be
lined up and he will be allowed to choose whichever one he desires" (Abu Dawood, Tirmidi)

It was narrated on the authority of Abu Horaira (ra - may Allah be pleased with him), that a man came to the Prophet (saw - may the peace & blessings of Allah be upon him) and said: " Advise me" . The Prophet (saw) said : " Donot become angry" . The man repeated his request several times to which the Prophet (saw) replied " Do not become angry" It was related by Bukhari...

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